Feeling unappreciated at work

Feeling unappreciated at work

What is the meaning behind feeling unappreciated at work? Feeling unappreciated at work usually comes from believing that your colleagues or employer do not recognize your efforts. They might ignore your contributions to the project or team if they don't acknowledge your hard work. 

What to do when feeling unappreciated at work

Most productive employees are satisfied with their jobs. Among the factors affecting job satisfaction are whether employees feel supported and valued by their peers and managers. You may feel more motivated, energized, and productive when you are praised and given positive feedback on your performance. It is essential to know how to address the feeling of being unappreciated at work, what it means, and why not to ignore it. When feeling unappreciated at work, consider the following advice: 

Make sure your expectations are realistic.

Identify the expectations you have for your colleagues and supervisors. You should be realistic about the amount of praise you hope to receive. Positive feedback may simply be absent because people are very busy themselves or have different expectations, rather than being intended as a slight against you. If your boss assigns you to a significant project, it usually means they trust you and value your work, even if they don't explicitly say so.

Get the opinion of someone you trust

You might want to talk to someone you trust within the office about how you are feeling. This often helps to give you another point of view on the issue. A 3rd party or “outside view” can bring things to light that you hadn’t considered before. They can give you a good honest perspective to ensure you’re well grounded.

Keep an eye on your coworkers.

Keep track of how often your co-workers are praised and recognized. It might help you determine whether you are being left out or if everyone receives praise equally. In addition, keep track of how people in charge react to comments and suggestions during meetings, after presentations, and on email or messaging threads.

Talk to your boss about it.

To talk about your feelings with your manager, request a meeting. Ask for an honest evaluation of your performance rather than blaming your manager for mistreatment. Explain that it's difficult to determine how you're doing without regular feedback. Bring a list of your most recent projects or successes and instances where your boss's acknowledgment might improve your performance and approach to future projects.

Keep up the excellent work.

Before everything else, be civil and do your work as best as possible. This way, you know what you can present to the managers and how you managed to achieve them. 

Start the appreciation environment yourself.

The improvements you want to see in your workplace can be led by you. When your coworkers and managers succeed, be sure to congratulate them; you'll frequently get praise in return. Make sure to mention every team member while working on a project with others. When your department hits a significant milestone, be sure to thank everyone individually. You can also include more general gestures of kindness and support, like bringing bagels or coffee to work for your staff or requesting your HR department to prepare meals when your department has late shifts.

Make small wins a priority.

Focus on the little things you do daily, such as drafting a challenging email, finishing the first page of a report you've been putting off, or showing up on time every day for a month to boost your drive and confidence. Even if you aren't getting feedback, celebrating tiny victories can help you stay engaged and motivated daily.

Explore new things

This is the last option you should consider if the earlier options didn't work and you still feel undervalued. Explore new things, find something or someplace else to work. Company values should be your priority. Voice out how important is feedback and value to you in the workplace. If you feel like that is a big step to take and are unsure what the future may hold for you, discuss this matter with someone you trust. Discussing such issues can help you manage everything and help you make the best decision. If you decide to resign, we have the perfect example of a resignation letter. 

Feeling unappreciated at work letter.

Speak with the manager you report and give verbal notice before writing a resignation letter. The manager should decide the reasonable notice period (often two weeks notice) and the notice period objectives during this discussion between the employee and the manager.  The most crucial goal is transferring job obligations and roles to a new hire or coworker. 


Here is an example resignation letter for someone quitting their job because they feel underappreciated at work.

Feeling unappreciated at the work resignation letter

Mr. Wilson


Nyc 11121, 123 Road St.5

6 th of June 2022

Spotify Inc.

Senior Leadership


My formal resignation from my position as Senior Leader at Spotify.Inc is effective as of the date of this letter. Three years with the company have been amazing. And I want to express my gratitude to you for everything I have learned. I've developed into a strong employee and professional thanks to this opportunity.

I regret to say that I believe my academic progress has recently slowed. And I need to look for a fresh chance that gives me another chance to make mistakes and learn.

I genuinely appreciate the opportunity.

The 20th of June, two weeks from now, will be my last day of employment.

Quotes about feeling unappreciated at work

“I can see a movie, believe the story and characterization, and stay proud of it. It doesn’t change. Even if it’s unappreciated, that doesn’t mean it can’t be appreciated in the future.” Unknown 

“I give to you because I want to and not expecting anything back. When you start demanding it and expect it like it's owed to you, that’s when I turn my back.” Unknown 

“The feeling I hate being unappreciated for my work and stolen from.” Unknown 

“I might be difficult today. Not because I choose to. But my goodness was taken for granted.” Unknown 

“I think I honestly hate being unappreciated, in every way by various people, never realized it bothered me so much.”Unknown 

“If they don’t appreciate your presence, perhaps you should try giving them your absence.” Unknown 

“If you are not feeling good about yourself, then you work out. But you do it for you.” Unknown 

“If you can go days without talking to me, I’m not that important to you.” Unknown 

“If you treat me like no one today, tomorrow you will be no one to me.” Unknown 

“I’m doing one of the hardest things in the world, but I’m tired of being unappreciated; either get right or get left, I will be appreciated.” Unknown 

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